1.
"Excuse
me,
would
you
mind
if
I
asked
you
a
question?"
【说话要有礼貌】
2.
"I
really
appreciate
your
perspective,
would
you
mind
sharing
more?"
【表达谢意和尊重】
3.
"I
understand
where
you're
coming
from,
but
can
I
offer
a
different
viewpoint?"【展现自己的观点,但不要攻击对方】
4.
"I'm
sorry,
could
you
repeat
that?
I
didn't
quite
catch
what
you
said.
"
【尊重对方和听众】
5.
"I
think
it
would
be
great
if
we
could
work
together
on
this.
"
【鼓励合作】
6.
"Thank
you
so
much
for
taking
the
time
to
speak
with
me.
"
【表达谢意】
7.
"I'm
sorry
if
I
came
across
as
rude
or
harsh
earlier.
"
【认错和道歉】
8.
"I
appreciate
your
point
of
view,
and
I
think
we
can
come
to
a
compromise.
"
【鼓励妥协】
9.
"I
admire
the
way
you
handle
difficult
situations
with
such
grace.
"
【表扬对方的优点】
10.
"I'm
sorry
if
I
interrupted
you
earlier,
please
continue.
"
【认错和让对方继续发言】
11.
"I
completely
understand
your
concerns,
and
I
share
some
of
them.
"
【表达共鸣和理解】
12.
"Can
you
tell
me
more
about
your
experience
with
that?"
【鼓励对方分享自己的经验和故事】
13.
"I
love
the
way
you
phrased
that,
it
really
resonates
with
me.
"
【表达欣赏和赞美】
14.
"I'm
sorry,
I
didn't
mean
to
offend
you.
"
【认错和道歉】
15.
"Can
you
elaborate
on
that
point
you
just
made?"
【鼓励对方详细说明自己的意思】
16.
"I
think
it's
important
that
we
hear
all
sides
of
the
argument.
"
【鼓励讨论和尊重不同的观点】
17.
"I
admire
your
ability
to
stay
calm
and
composed
in
stressful
situations.
"
【表扬对方的优点】
18.
"I
think
we
can
find
a
solution
that
works
for
both
of
us.
"
【鼓励妥协】
19.
"I'm
sorry,
I
didn't
mean
to
cut
you
off
earlier.
"
【认错和道歉】
20.
"Thank
you
for
your
input,
it
has
given
me
a
lot
to
think
about.
"
【表达谢意和重视对方的见解】